A chilling case of alleged harassment, defamation, and emotional torment has gripped listeners of Obra on Nhyira FM, simulcast on Adom TV, as Cyndi Nana Hackman accused her former partner of waging a relentless campaign to destroy her life.
Cyndi described a situation she says has left her living in fear, unable to settle, and constantly looking over her shoulder.
She says her troubles began after their relationship ended under disturbing circumstances.
She alleged that the breakup followed an incident where her ex-boyfriend attempted to poison their child.
“After everything, he told me I will never find happiness,” she recounted.
She believes what followed has been a deliberate effort to fulfil that threat.
Cyndi claims her ex has been spreading damaging and false statements about her wherever she goes.
“He tells people I have cancer, that I have bad breath, and that I am mentally unstable,” she said.
According to her, these allegations are not only untrue but calculated to isolate her socially and destroy her reputation.
In one of the most alarming parts of her account, Cyndi alleged that her ex tracks her movements and shows up at places she relocates to.
“Anytime I move, he finds me,” she said.
She claims he goes as far as speaking to landlords and neighbours, warning them that she has a communicable disease — a tactic she says has repeatedly cost her accommodation.
“People become afraid and I have to leave again,” she added.
Host Ohemaa Benewa described the allegations as serious and troubling: “This goes beyond a broken relationship. This is about safety and dignity.”
Lady Gold questioned the extent of the alleged harassment: “If someone cannot live peacefully because of an ex, then it becomes a serious issue that must be addressed urgently.”
Evangelist de Graft Addai added: “Words can destroy a person’s life just as much as actions. Defamation is not a small matter.”
Meanwhile, Big Mama (Gifty Donkor) focused on the psychological impact: “Living like this can break anyone. This is emotional torture.”
The Obra audience was visibly divided but largely sympathetic.
Some questioned the severity of the claims: “If this is true, then it is very dangerous.”
Others urged immediate intervention: “She needs protection. This is not normal.”
A Mother Living In Fear
Cyndi emphasised that beyond her own safety, she is also worried about the well-being of their child.
“I am not at peace,” she said. “I just want this to stop.”
She is now calling for intervention to end what she describes as ongoing harassment and to allow her to rebuild her life.
In her final remarks, Ohemaa Benewa did not mince words: “When a relationship ends, it should end. Turning pain into revenge only creates more destruction.”
She urged individuals to seek lawful means of resolving disputes and warned against using intimidation, lies, or fear as tools of control.
As the case awaits a response from the accused, one question lingers: When does a broken relationship cross the line into dangerous obsession?
For Cyndi Nana Hackman, that line, she says, has already been crossed.
