Fights and arguments are healthy as long as a few rules are followed and neither of you cross that line.
It is healthy to bicker which is why everyone says that if you are not fighting then something is wrong in your relationship. Sounds absurd?
Here are 5 reasons why small arguments are beneficial for married couples.
Opinions aren’t hidden
Your relationship definitely becomes stronger when you hold back no grudge and instead say it out loud in front of your partner.
Even if there are disagreements, there is nothing hidden.
You express what you feel and what you think. No one holds a grudge against the other so it becomes a transparent relationship.
Intimacy
Many experts say that by arguing with each other your intimacy with your partner increases as well.
You do end up apologising to each other, making amends. This brings you two closer.
Trust building
When we discuss things and argue a little, we are not keeping secrets, therefore the trust remains.
However, if in a relationship there are no arguments, there lurk many secrets and therefore both the partners end up doubting each other.
However, it is important that the argument is not one-sided. Both should listen to each other’s opinion otherwise it becomes completely unhealthy.
It feels better
When we speak what we have in our hearts and mind, we tend to feel better. Even if you both have argued, in the end, it feels good and relaxing.
Healthy debates are always good and make sure that you solve your issues before going to bed.
Character improvement
After a few fights and arguments, your patience increases for your partner. You may not realise it immediately but now that we have reminded you, you may realise how your care and love for your partner increases over time.
Many people even adapt themselves according to the other to avoid unnecessary arguments.
But you must make sure that these arguments are not too often and not unpleasant. Do not cross the limit.
If you feel that the other is crossing the line, simply get up and leave that room.
Do not reciprocate as that will simply bring out the worst side of you and you do not want that to happen.
