1. Dating tips for people in late 20s
As if society wasn’t pressuring enough, dating when you are in your late 20s can turn out to be a little tricky affair. Your social media feed might be full of your friends getting married or having kids, your parents might already be looking out for an ideal life partner for you and there can be a probability you are clueless on how to deal with this imbroglio. But fret not! Here are some tips that would help you to improve your dating game and find what you are looking for in your love life.
2. It all starts with you
First of all, it is you who needs to gain clarity on what are you exactly seeking from a romantic partner and a relationship? Are you willing to step into a serious relationship and eventually settle down, or you are looking for something casual? Are you still nursing a broken heart or have made peace with your past? Take your own time to think about how you want the coming years of your life to unfold and proceed accordingly.
3. Look for the right platforms
The world of online dating has something for everyone! Make your account on dating apps and sites depending upon what you are looking for. Not every dating app is meant for people who are looking for flings and in fact, there are several apps and sites that are dedicated to single people looking for love and marriage.
4. Keep your intentions clear
Well, your profile on the app or site should be fun, candid and talk about your areas of interests, likes and dislikes. But along with all this, it must also give a hint about what you are looking for in your love life. It would help you to meet like-minded people and be on the same page from the day one.
5. Be open minded
We all have a mental checklist of how our ideal partner should be like. Perhaps, it is good to look for someone who shares your core values and ethics but it is equally important to be little flexible and open minded. At the end of the day, your personality should complement with your partner’s and both of you should be willing to make the relationship work. Remember, you can find a perfect partner in romantic movies or rosy novels but things are quite different in the real life.
6. Realise you past dating mistakes
To err is human! We all make mistakes in our love life and that’s how we figure out what’s right and wrong for us. Since you have stepped into the dating game, it’s the wisest to look back and think about the situations that you could have handled more maturely. There is nothing to regret or brood about; you only need to learn from your past experiences and never make the same mistakes again.
7. You do not need to compromise!
It is better to be single rather than feeling lonely in a relationship, right? You might feel pressured to settle down in your late twenties but do not rush things or compromise just for the sake of it. Take as much time you feel like and marry when you think you have found someone with whom you can happily share your rest of the life.
TNN/timesofindia.indiatimes.com
