Controversial Counselor, George Lutterodt, says cheating is not a sin and should be seen as part of marriage.

Speaking on Adom TV’s Morning show Badwam Thursday, Mr Lutterodt urged men not to blame their wives if they cheat but rather see it as an opportunity to perform well in bed.

Cheating is not a sin. If you are a man and your wife cheats or you catch your wife red-handed, just thank God because it is an opportunity to learn because your wife will come home with new bed skills,” he said.

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Asked what he would do if his wife cheats, the counsellor said: “If I catch my wife in bed with someone, I will just stand there and watch it the more and learn so that if she comes home, she can also teach me more”.

According to him, most married women in Ghana are seeking sexual satisfaction outside their marital homes because husbands are “not performing”.

He further advised that sex is a key component in marriage thus couples have to learn how to satisfy each other in bed.

He said, however, that married women who go the extreme to please their husbands to save their marriages are rather worsening their case since such make-believes cannot stop a man from cheating.

 

 

 




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  1. WHAT DOES THIS COUNSELOR TAKE MARRIAGE TO BE? MARRIAGE IS A BOND OF LOVE BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN BACKED BY THE FEAR OF THE CREATOR. IF YOU BELIEVE IN CREATION, IT GOES TO TELL YOU THAT EVEN AT THE TIME OF CREATION WHEN THERE WAS NO ISSUE WITH SENIOR HIGH SECONDARY FEE OR TROTRO DRIVER AND ABLANKE PALAVER, ADAM WAS BLESSED WITH ONE EVE. IT TAKES THE SAME MONTHS FOR A GIRL CHILD TO BE BORN JUST AS THE BOY CHILD. IT IS ONLY THE WOMAN THAT KNOWS WHEN YOU ARE A SEED TILL YOU ARE BORN APART FROM THE CREATOR WHO KNOWS WHEN YOU ARE TO BE A SEED TILL DELIVERY AND FINAL DEPARTURE FROM THIS EARTH. IN A TRADITIONAL SETTINGS, IN TIMES OF CRISES, IT IS THE OLD LADY THAT IS CONSULTED EVEN THOUGH SOUNDS FIGURATIVE, IT IS NOT THE OLD MAN. A GENTLEMAN WOULD OFFER A LADY A SEAT IF HE IS OFFERED IN RECOGNITION OF THE FIRST POSITION A WOMAN IS BY NATURE TO OCCUPY IN MAN’S HEART. WHEN SOME MEN ARGUE THAT A WOMAN WHO BUYS A GUN KEEPS WITH THE MAN, THEY FORGET THE FAMOUS OBAA YAA ASANTEWAA LED THE MEN TO WAR IN THE ASHANTI KINGDOM. WHEN WE SAY THAT BEHIND A SUCCESSFUL MAN THERE IS A WOMAN, IT GOES TO TELL YOU THAT THE WOMAN IS FIRST ENDOWED WITH THAT SUCCESS KNOWLEDGE. THE FREE SHS AND POSSIBLY FREE TERTIARY EDUCATION THAT WOULD CREATE EQUAL PLATFORM FOR BOTH BOY AND GIRL CHILD WOULD LEAD TO MEANINGFUL CONTRIBUTION BY THE WOMEN WHO MOST OF US ACCUSE AS WITCHES AND IGNORE THE SACRIFICES THEY HAVE BEEN MAKING ALL THESE TIMES. IN THE SAME VEIN THE DEVELOPING COUNTRIES ARE AGGRESSIVELY PURSUING DEVELOPMENT TO LIBERATE THEIR PEOPLE FROM IGNORANCE AND POVERTY EVEN SO WOMEN WOULD NOT BE SEEN AS MADE FOR DOMESTIC AFFAIRS BUT EQUAL PARTNERS IN ALL SPHERES OF LIVES. ALL RELIGION IS GROUNDED BY LOVE AND SO IF YOU LOVE AND TREAT YOUR WIFE LIKE YOURSELF, THE ISSUE OF CHEAT IS LIKELY TO BE OUT AS SHE IS LIKELY TO TREAT YOU THE SAME WAY. I AGREE WITH YOU BEING THANKFUL TO GOD BECAUSE IT WOULD INFORM YOU TO DECIDE WHETHER YOU SHOULD ALLOW HER HAVE HER OWN WAY AS YOU CANNOT FORCE ONE TO LOVE YOU AND SO THE BEST OPTION IS TO ALLOW GO TO AVOID THE WORSE SCENARIO. MARRIAGE IS NOT ONLY ABOUT SEX. IT IS TRUE MOST MEN ARE BECOMING SEXUALLY WEAK DUE TO PRESSURE AND TECHNOLOGICAL ADVANCEMENT BUT THAT DOES NOT GIVE CAUSE FOR THE PARTNER TO CHEAT. MEN SHOULD PROTECT THEMSELVES FROM THE NON-IONIZING RADIATION FROM ELECTRONIC GADGETS WHICH IS AVAILABLE AND GO MORE NATURAL BY TAKING IN MORE FRUITS, VEGETABLES, FRUITS AND OTHERS TO REVIVE THE SYSTEM. DO YOU KNOW WHAT YOUR WIFE WOULD DO TO YOU IF YOU ENCOURAGE SUCH BEHAVIOUR OR YOU THINK YOU WOULD ALWAYS BE STRONG AND SHOWING SKILLS. GO TO YOUR MOTHER AND ASK HER THAT WHICH HAS A LONGER LIFE SPAN, THE MORTAR OR THE PISTIL THAT IS USED FOR POUNDING FUFU SO THAT WHEN YOU ARE YOUNG AND YOU ABUSE YOUR STRENGTH, YOU WOULD ACCOUNT FOR IT ONE DAY. APPRECIATE LOVE AND THE FEAR OF GOD OR ALLAH IN MARRIAGE FOR THAT IS WHAT IS IMPORTANT IN MARRIAGE AND SEX IS ONLY PART OF IT THAT ENSURES CONTINUITY OF LIFE AND GOES WITH RESPONSIBILITY BY BOTH PARTIES. http://www.ebnanotech.com