1. 6 times it is okay for your partner to stay in touch with their ex
Most of us make only negative assumptions the moment we get to know our partner is still friends with his/her ex-partner, isn’t it? In fact, we even start doubting the strength of our existing relationship and wonder if our partner might still be nursing feelings for the ex. However, it is possible and completely healthy for two people to remain friends even after their break up. Here are a few times when it is okay for your lover to stay in touch with their ex.
2. When they have mutual friends
When your partner and their ex share the same social circle or group of friends, they might make the decision to stay courteous and friendly to each other, more so because they know they would be bumping into each other whenever they hang out together and it might get pretty awkward for everyone if they keep shunning each other. Therefore, staying polite, courteous and ‘just friends’ is harmless and a sign of mature relationship between them.
3. When they work in the same office
Well, everyone should keep their personal and professional life separate, including ex-partners. It is not possible to completely cut out all communication with your ex, who also happens to be your co-worker, and allow it to take a toll on your work performance. Hence, it is wise to keep things professional, communicate when required and stay on amicable terms.
4. They both have actually moved on
In case both of them have made peace with what all happened in the past and do not have any romantic feelings for each other, there is nothing wrong in staying friends. You can perhaps breathe in a sigh of relief and be happy to know your lover knows how to maintain relationships.
5. You are your partner’s emotional support
Whenever your partner is feeling low or has an argument with you, he/she prefers to talk it out with you rather than leaning on his ex-partner for emotional support. If this is the case, you are pretty secure in your existing relationship and there is nothing to worry about.
6. Because they started out as good friends
There could be chances that your partner and their ex were really good friends before they started dating. However, things turned awry when they stepped into a relationship and realised they were better off as friends. Well, if both of them are on the same page, you can be assured their friendship is not a threat to your bond.
7. What matters the most
The fact that your partner is not hiding anything about his/her past relationship from you speaks a lot about their honesty and dedication as a partner. So far as he/she shares clear boundaries with the ex and there is nothing that makes you uncomfortable, your relationship is heading in the right direction.
