1. Signs you are not compatible with your partner
If you looking for a long-term relationship, it is a pre-requisite to date someone you are compatible with. No matter how much you are in love with your partner, there is a high probability that your relationship is going to face serious issues if both of you want different things from life or do not complement each other’s personality type. In case you have been questioning if your lover can be your soulmate or a good life partner, here are a few signs you can look out for.
2. You imagine different futures
If you and your lover share different set of core values on marriage, having kids and other personal goals, it can be a red flag for your relationship. It shows you both imagine different futures and want different things from life. Personal values and ethics are non-negotiable for most of the individuals and compromising on these might never bring fulfillment and happiness in your relationship.
3. You fight the wrong way
It is normal for every couple to argue or fight and the way both the partners solve the issue determines how compatible they are together. If one or both of you prefer to sweep the issue under the carpet and pretend like nothing happened or keep on bickering on the same issues, it indicates you both are struggling to resolve the problems from the root. This can also be counted as a sign of incompatibility.
4. You don’t feel loved
You feel your relationship has lost its spark and you both do not share the same emotional connect. You believe the relationship is not working out despite putting your best efforts and do not feel loved anymore. Maybe, it’s best to accept the fact that you both are not meant to be together and it is the time to move on.
5. You are not yourself
Somehow, you have been dating your lover since quite some time and you are hesitant to be yourself in front of him/her. You are struggling to strike a rapport and develop a good understanding level. Well, when you are truly compatible with your lover, you do not shy away from expressing your true emotions.
6. Your partner does not value your needs
Whether emotional or sexual, your partner does not value your needs. He/she takes you for granted and you are the only one who puts most of the efforts to keep the relationship afloat. Not just this, you feel disrespected at times and your partner is unapologetic about it. Do we really need to specify what all these signs indicate?
7. Areas of interest
You both do not share common areas of interest, and do not spend time together doing things you both enjoy. In fact, you both have different choice and preferences everywhere and struggle to find a middle path.
8. Your gut feeling
Regardless of whether you fight with your partner or not, you feel something is off in your relationship. You know deep down this relationship is meant for you and the best thing you can do is to trust your gut feeling.
