A woman’s weapons in her quest to sexually attract a man are many and varied. Wanna know how to make a guy hard? Here are 16 irresistible moves!
I suppose there will be many girls out there reading this thinking, “How to make a guy hard? Jeez, most of the guys I know get hard just by being in the same room as a woman.” Well, it is true there are a lot of guys out there who have been blessed with all the sexual sophistication of a male Chihuahua.
Equally there are many guys a little bit more deserving of the chase, a bit more sophisticated than the average Joe, and hence the object of desire for half the female populace of the district.
Understanding what you have
And if you’re going to beat the opposition to the end game, you’re going to have to know what tools you have at your disposal and how to use them. On that score, you are blessed indeed. A woman has many tools and weapons capable of reducing even the most even-headed and sensible man to jelly. You’ve just got to know how to use them.
To help all you ladies out there in your quest to attract the man of your dreams with the full force of your feminine wiles, the following list gives you a full guide to get the object of your desires standing to attention in more ways than one!
Divided into four sections—physical attributes, speech, body language, and the hard sell. Take a selection of those methods you think might work best for yourself, or all of them, and begin your quest. [Read: 30 subtle, obvious and really sexual flirting tips for women]
Your physical attributes
Those parts of your body most feminine, most particular to your gender, are the parts of your body he drools over. Make the most of your personal strengths.
#1 Breasts. No part of the body is quite as uniquely feminine as breasts, and most guys are REALLY into a flash of mammary heaven. Low slung tops are the order of the day on this front. [Read: Why men like boobs: An in-depth scientific explanation]
#2 Butts. Arguably number two on the list of favorite female body parts, a larger, rounded butt is also a very uniquely feminine trait. Best advice… bend over for a full flash at every opportunity.
#3 Legs. Never underestimate the power of legs to get a man hard. Long legs especially do it for guys, as do the uniquely feminine shape of the thighs. High heels and shorts skirts make the most of both.
#4 Hips. Mistakenly undervalued, hips are the often the vital last ingredient in the FWAR factor *fantastic waist to arse ratio*. Make the most of larger womanly hips with figure hugging skirts. [Read: Why men love women and their oh-so-hot bodies]
Speech and conversation
It’s not only the things you say, but also how you say them, giving him the picture as to where you hope to head, and put a bit of lead in his pencil as a result.
#5 Tone. Avoid being squawky and high pitched when you talk one-on-one, a real turn off for most guys. Keep your voice low, gentle, and husky for maximum sexual effect. [Read: 60 dirty and seductive things to say to turn a guy on]
#6 Appreciation. Take time to tell him how much you appreciate aspects of his physicality—strong arms, nice butt, broad chest, etc. Guys are usually pretty narcissistic, and they’ll get their groove on for a well-placed compliment.
#7 Your past. Nothing’s going to turn him on more than sexual experiences you’ve had in the past or just how you enjoy sex in general. That kind of talk is really going to pump the heat up—and plenty more besides.
#8 Your future. Ditto for sexual fantasies. Something you haven’t done yet but would really like to in the future. Let his imagination lead him to believe he could be the one to benefit and watch his pocket rocket! [Read: How to make any guy horny just by sitting next to him]
Body language does at a very deep, and often subconscious, level, what speech and physical attributes do at surface and intermediate levels, getting your guy as stiff as a board.
#9 Footsie. A tried and tested way of getting a guy’s pulse racing is to let your feet and legs meet under the table. If having a meal, slowly increase the contact until obviously intentional.
#10 Eye contact. Simple eye-to-eye contact is a good way to start the seduction process, but start dropping your eyes to his lips, chest, or even further south, for more significant fly busting effect.
#11 Hands on. There’s nothing like letting a hand linger on his knee, back, or arm to get him warmed up. For some real heat, however, try stomach, butt, or thigh.
The hard sell
#12 Lips. Nothing sends a sexual signal out to a guy quite as effectively as sensually licking the lips. A truly powerful invitation to sexual adventure.
Once you’ve coaxed him to near or actual erection, the hard sell is the stage when you ensure that it’s going to stay in its manful state, the promises of delights to come now entirely blatant.
#13 It’s in your kiss. Time to employ your lips in direct contact, especially on the neck and ears to have him chomping at the bit.
#14 Digit delights. Let your hands meet at some point, and then slowly draw his hand to your mouth and suck gently upon his middle finger. Let him know EXACTLY what’s in store for him.
#15 Remove all doubt. Just to make sure that there’s no doubt left in his mind, nor any inclination in his junior partner to soften, tell him exactly what you’re going to do to him once you’re in private.
#16 The Sharon Stone. If you’re feeling particularly brave, take your panties off at some point and take the opportunity to give him a full-on flash. Just one caveat: if he’s wearing button fly jeans then you might want to think about donning a pair of safety glasses, because those babies are going to be flying off like bullets from a sub-machine gun!