best friends – Adomonline.com https://www.adomonline.com Your comprehensive news portal Sat, 01 Jun 2024 10:02:18 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 https://www.adomonline.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/cropped-Adomonline140-32x32.png best friends – Adomonline.com https://www.adomonline.com 32 32 ‘Tough’ to face ‘best friend’ Badosa – Sabalenka https://www.adomonline.com/tough-to-face-best-friend-badosa-sabalenka/ Sat, 01 Jun 2024 10:02:18 +0000 https://www.adomonline.com/?p=2403151 Aryna Sabalenka says it will be “tough” to face “best friend” Paula Badosa when they go head-to-head for a place in the French Open fourth round on Saturday.

Australian Open champion Sabalenka, 26, has been in imperious form so far at Roland Garros, losing just seven games across two commanding straight-set wins.

The pair play second on Court Philippe Chatrier.

“She’s my favourite,” world number two Sabalenka said of Badosa.

“I love her so much. I love to see her play, and she’s really a great fighter, so it’s always great matches.

“It’s always tough to play your best friend on tour, but we know how to manage that, we know how to separate court and life.

“It’s always a great battle. I always enjoy playing against her.”

Spaniard Badosa, a former quarter-finalist, has twice come back from a set down to reach the third round in Paris.

Having ended British number one Katie Boulter’s hopes, Badosa defeated Kazakhstan’s Yulia Putintseva on Thursday and said she was looking forward to the challenge against Sabalenka, who has won their past four meetings.

“She has a big personality, she’s a good girl, always bringing good energy, even on court,” said 26-year-old Badosa, who is currently ranked 139th.

“I think it’s going to be fun. Of course, sharing the court with her after all these results she’s doing and all this is a pleasure for me.”

Elsewhere in the women’s singles draw, fourth seed Elena Rybakina and Belgium’s Elise Mertens meet in the opening match on Philippe Chatrier.

Kazakhstan’s Rybakina, who lifted the Wimbledon title in 2022, has only gone beyond the third round of the French Open once previously.

On Court Suzanne Lenglen, American 14th seed Madison Keys takes on compatriot Emma Navarro for a place in round four.

Chinese seventh seed Zheng Qinwen faces Russian Elina Avanesyan in the opener on Court Simonne Mathieu.

Zheng was a beaten finalist at the Australian Open in January but is yet to go beyond the fourth round at Roland Garros.

Djokovic’s mentality ‘is out of this planet’

Novak Djokovic holds up his racquet in celebrationIMAGE SOURCE: GETTY IMAGES

Image caption: Novak Djokovic has won the French Open on three occasions

Defending champion Novak Djokovic is also back in action on day seven when he faces Italy’s Lorenzo Musetti for a place in round four.

Djokovic has endured a tough first half of 2024, failing to reach a final while his spot at the top of the world rankings is under growing pressure from world number two Jannik Sinner, who booked his place in the fourth round on Friday.

The Serb’s pursuit of a record 25th Grand Slam title continues in the night session on Philippe Chatrier, following straight-set victories against France’s Pierre-Hugues Herbert and Spain’s Roberto Carballes Baena.

Speaking on Friday after beating Donna Vekic, Olga Danilovic, a compatriot of Djokovic, hailed the 37-year-old’s abilities.

“I don’t know if we actually appreciate that he’s the best player in the world by far,” Danilovic said.

“He’s a very humble and nice guy, especially that he’s number one in the world and he’s, for me, the greatest of all time.

“The mentality he has, we are all seeking to have that. It’s just something that is out of this planet.”

Elsewhere on Saturday, fourth seed Alexander Zverev meets Dutchman Tallon Griekspoor.

A trial over domestic abuse allegations against Zverev began on Friday – the German has denied the claims.

Norwegian seventh seed Casper Ruud is up against Argentina’s Tomas Martin Etcheverry, while Denmark’s Holger Rune takes on Jozef Kovalik of Slovakia.

Salisbury and Ram continue doubles quest

Joe Salisbury and Rajeev Ram at the French OpenIMAGE SOURCE: GETTY IMAGES

Image caption: Joe Salisbury and Rajeev Ram have won four men’s doubles Grand Slam titles

Britain’s Joe Salisbury and American partner Rajeev Ram started their men’s doubles campaign with a straight-set win on Friday and they return to action on Saturday.

They meet Kazakhstan’s Aleksandr Nedovyesov and Ecuador’s Gonzalo Escobar in round two.

Jamie Murray, Henry Patten, Luke Johnson and Neal Skupski are among the other Britons playing in the men’s doubles on day seven, all with non-British partners, while Salisbury and Heather Watson will team up in the mixed doubles.

Maia Lumsden is the only British player remaining in the women’s doubles and will partner China’s Wang Yafan against Ukraine’s Nadiia Kichenok and Japan’s Miyu Kato.

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Does your partner have to be your best friend? 10 people give honest opinions https://www.adomonline.com/does-your-partner-have-to-be-your-best-friend-10-people-give-honest-opinions/ Mon, 31 Jul 2023 09:06:25 +0000 https://www.adomonline.com/?p=2278681 Is it really necessary for your partner to be your best friend, or is it just a common opinion in society?

“I married my best friend” is a common expression among newlyweds on social media.

It gives off this notion that the best relationships are the ones in which the lovers are also best friends.

But does everyone agree with this perspective? Are the best relationships truly formed with partners who are both lovers and friends?

To sate this curiosity and gather genuine opinions from the public, we spoke to 10 people asking them this question, “Does your partner have to be your best friend?”

Here’s how they responded.

I don’t believe it’s necessary for your partner to be your best friend. It’s not a must and depends on the nature of the relationship you both have.

You can have a close relationship with your partner, share everything, and do things together, but still have someone else in your corner whom you feel comfortable talking to when things go wrong with your partner.

For me, having a best friend outside of the relationship doesn’t diminish the love, communication, and connection I have with my boyfriend.

The only potential issue I see is when a girl has a boy as her best friend or vice versa. Outside of that, it’s not really a problem. I can have my female best friend and still share a great bond with my boyfriend.

There may be certain things I feel more comfortable discussing with my best friend rather than my boyfriend, but it doesn’t mean our relationship isn’t good. It all depends on the two individuals and what they want in their relationship.

In conclusion, while it may work for some couples to have their partner as their best friend, it’s not a must for me. I value having my best friend and my boyfriend separately, and it doesn’t affect the quality of our relationship.

So… I’m in what I’ll call a situation-ship, and as much as I’d love for my partner to be my best friend, it’s just not happening, and it honestly hurts.

I have a friend with someone that I’m not in a romantic relationship with and even my current partner and I are struggling to maintain the love in our relationship.

I value the spontaneity that comes with loving relationships, as well as the intentionality and communication that are so important to me and that I crave so much in my partner.

I’m willing to do everything and anything to see my partner become my best friend, but it’s been difficult.

Sadly, not everything we want, we get. As much as I hate to say this, if my relationship were to end today, I wouldn’t be sad, because we were only lovers and not best friends.

The role of a best friend in a romantic partner cannot be over-emphasised. If not with my partner, then with whom can I share all my experiences? How do I embark on adventures alone, excluding the one my heart yearns for?

How do I smile and gossip with others, knowing I can’t do that with my partner? It makes me question why we are even together.

If I can’t have my partner as my best friend, then I don’t want any partner at all. Selah?

Honestly, I don’t believe that your partner has to be your best friend. There are so many different things that make a best friend, and just because you’re close with your partner doesn’t necessarily mean you have everything in common that makes a best friend.

Of course, you can still be very close and do everything that partners do, but it’s totally normal and acceptable to have another best friend who is usually of the same gender.

But if your partner happens to be your best friend, then that’s just a lucky coincidence.

At the end of the day, guys and girls are different, and just because you love and care for your partner doesn’t mean they have to be your best friend. It’s not even necessary, and you can still have a great relationship without it.

I believe that both people should be very good friends. There should have been a build-up of friendship before diving into a romantic relationship, you know.

Before becoming best friends, I think there should be room for vulnerability and understanding different perspectives of each other in various circumstances, which helps to know how those people respond in neutral situations.

I think it’s better that way. I don’t believe that people have to be best friends in a relationship.

You can be the best of friends or good friends, but not necessarily best friends. Because, you know, there are things that I can tell my guy friends, my best friends, that if I tell my partner, it may result in World War 3.

She may not be able to see it the way my guy friends will see it, and she may not be as forgiving, no matter how much she loves you or whatever.

My guy, my best friend, can be more understanding in such situations, and I think it’s just best that way. As long as you guys are good friends, that’s fine.

Your partner is your partner. Can they be your best friend? YES, and in fact, they already are. They know your secrets, troubles, and things you couldn’t even share with anyone else, as well as things that you want to share. Friendship is the most important thing in a relationship because they are not just your life partner, but also your confidant.

It’s very important because this kind of connection goes beyond just being romantic partners; it forms the foundation of a deep and meaningful bond in a relationship.

My best friend is my favourite person because we share many things in common and agree on a lot, which naturally makes us compatible.

Starting a relationship with my best friend feels safer because she already has my trust, and trust is a significant factor in any successful relationship.

Of course, as we progress into a romantic relationship, things might get more complicated, but I have confidence that we’ll be able to work through any challenges that come our way.

Having a strong foundation of friendship with my partner is invaluable. It brings us closer together, and our shared trust and understanding create a deep connection that makes our relationship special. I truly believe that being best friends with your partner can lead to a more meaningful and lasting bond.

In my opinion, it’s not necessary for my partner to be my best friend, but it can be beneficial to both of us.

A relationship involves many things that you would have with a best friend, and having a partner who is also your best friend can help sustain the relationship because you both share everything.

Personally, I consider my partner to be my best friend. We chat a lot on WhatsApp, and he’s basically the only one I communicate with, except for a few necessary messages I have to reply to.

It all comes down to the nature of your partner. If you have a partner who takes something you confide in them and later uses it against you when you make a mistake, that kind of person cannot truly be a best friend.

It becomes emotionally draining because anything you share with them will be turned against you.

To me, a best friend is someone you can always rely on, someone you can call at any time, no matter the situation. So, in a nutshell, I strongly believe having a partner who is also your best friend is a must.

You can’t do life with someone who isn’t your best friend. You should be able to do and say everything to and with your partner!

I mean this is who you’re going to spend the rest of your life with so why would you want another best friend?

This person would be the father or mother of your kids. If you’re not best friends, you wouldn’t survive the storms of life because sometimes love isn’t enough.

That’s where friendship comes in. It’s easier to tell your friend when they’ve made you uncomfortable or unhappy. So yes, your partner should be your bestie.

I think it’s cool for your partner to be your best friend because it enables you guys to be open and honest with each other. There are no secrets, and nobody is trying to be perfect.

It makes you feel comfortable around your partner, and you can openly share anything without being afraid of being misunderstood.

I also believe that it’s not a must for your partner to be your best friend. Every couple is different, and what works for one may not work for another.

The most important thing is to have a strong and trusting connection with your partner, whether they are your best friend or not.

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