Man divorces wife on honeymoon after seeing her first time without make-up

Source: Happy FM   
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A woman from Mpumalanga has been divorced by her husband on their honeymoon just a few days after their wedding.

The bridegroom dumped the woman after he saw her with no make-up for the first time according to a psychologist who counselled the unidentified woman.

The 40-year-old groom divorced his 35-year-old bride, said the doctor, because the husband believed she did not look as pretty as before the wedding and accused her of deceiving him by using so many cosmetics, including fake eyelashes.

Dr Molapo, consultant psychologist, said that his clinic received a request from the woman to help her overcome her psychological suffering after her divorce

Reports are that the groom took his bride to Richards Bay for their honeymoon where they had a swim but the outing turned tragic when her face became wet and her makeup reportedly washed away.

The groom said he could barely recognise his wife after the make-up was gone.

The bride wore artificial eyelashes and had undergone cosmetic surgeries before the marriage. The couple who had met on Facebook had been engaged for three months

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186 COMMENTS

  1. I think using minimal makeup to enhance certain features such as eyes and lips is perfectly fine. I feel sorry for this poor lady for not wearing waterproof make up before going swimming.

    My advice to all ladies, is let your guy see you with less make up. I just use eye pencil and light lipstick.

  2. No. I blame the man. How can u be engaged on social media? That’ll mean u dun really know each other. He never went to her house and caught her without make-up. This is bad.

    • That is where my concern is. How can you see a lady on Facebook and you just engaged her? So is he saying that he never went to her house or something? At least he could have allowed the woman to stay with him for one day and he would have noticed it when she bathed in the morning. They both are not serious

  3. Makeup and cosmetic surgery have nothing to do with how genuine a person is. If I want to wear glitter in my eyelids and bright red lipstick, I will. If I want to get my lips filled or my breasts done, I will. Taking the time to do these things to make myself feel happy or comfortable with myself doesn’t change how real or fake I am. If the man can only love the made up side of me but not the real me then he is not worth my time.

    • Just be yourself, If he likes you for who you really are then more power to the both of you. Yet if you present something totally different, you can’t fault his response either.if what matters is what in the heart, then present your true self, not a lie. Most men would rather have a woman with short or no hair if they think she is pretty, than
      Have a woman with completely fake hair they can’t even touch. She have let him know exactly what she looked like. Now, that being said , he should have never married after three months in the first place. So that on him as well. You shouldn’t marry because of beauty, but there is truly no beauty in deception.

  4. I Sincerely blame man. U don’t just jump into marriage without first finding out even not everything, at least somethings about her.
    My submission is that the girl and the man was desperate…

    • Very serious for people dating online. Maybe next time she will wear water proof make-up. Just because she worn all that make-up doesnt mean her “Heart” was fake, perhaps it was the Doctor who was the fake one. I’m sure he will start dating the old way or inspect his lady before he walk down the the aisle.

  5. Hahahahahaha a divorce wasn’t enuf for a fake person like her he would have sued her for pretending to be wat she ain’t,pay for the money of the wedding and a punishment would be to get the nigga anew bride

  6. Na wa o no kind of stories one can’t find online. How can you divorce based on physical appearance. I am not really surprised by this incredible story bcos the union was built on a very flimsy and Rocky foundation and therefore couldn’t stand the test of time. Meet on facebook or something and were engaged for three very short months, not to talk of seeking the face of God which is of paramount importance.
    And for ladies and makeup I tire sef. Foundations, fake eye colour,lashes,enhanced/ fake boobs and bum, fake hair, fake nails, all manner of colours applied on them, hip enlargement, botox, breast and buttocks enlargement even some of them their birth parents cannot recognize them
    What is remaining if it were possible is for them to fix another head on their necks. Bleaching nko. May God help my fellow women to value themselves and know their real worth.

    • Fake things may enchance me, but It can become stressful trying to make sure everything stay in place or doesn’t come off. No fake nails, hair,eye lashes or anything for me. I am all natural by choice because pleasing me is more important than trying to get some one else approval.

  7. Oh so he only fell in lovw with her looks? Was he THAT stupid that he didnt know she was wearing make up? I’d say good riddance to the dummy!

  8. Make-ups are really deceitful and can easily caused a man to take quick decisions. But the fact of the matter is “What God put together no man can separate it “even make-up cannot separate it. I therefore urge the man to reconsider his decision.

  9. As for me,d man is not ready to settle down cos if he truly wanted to get married,he Wudnt have married her “only”based on looks,mehn it’s obvious he is 40 yrs but he is not mentally matured”a fool at forty is a fool forever”,am nat insulting him but let’s face d fact,its only an immature guy who wud do this.

  10. As for those dt says guys should not marry becos of beauty shld tell girls not to marry bcos money or guy’s fortune also especially those beautiful ones, its only when a lady become used & dumped or if they are not attracted to many guys dt they will now say they don’t mind any guy. As for me o, I believe luv & beauty goes pari- pa-su, not to be exremly beautiful sha bt shld be sectually attractive to me & at least be presentable. Bt I know those posting those comments ar women anyway, they can be bias!

  11. The fact of the matter is, some women need these cosmetics because of life experiences, such as different cancers that takes out their hair, eyebrows,eyelashes, so its not all about not being (100) there are some other reasons for these things so sometimes we as someone who don’t need these cosmetics, need to have a open mind….some people lose hair and it never comes back, hair pieces and wigs is their only way of comfort!! Some do it for comfort some do it for attention. …my fiancée do it for comfort after years of cancer treatment. ….i see her with her make up and without….i love her the same way…..

  12. truly, this woman is absolutely ugly. she was putting on Mask to deceive the guy.
    ugly women like masquerading beauty with cosmetics just to catch a silly man.

  13. He was never worth it to begin with! Even if she really did look as pretty without make-up..He would’ve eventually leave her in the long run because he’d lose interest and not be attracted to her anymore, because he married based on what a person looked on the outside and not inside!

    • Amen.Looks wont sustain love.God looks on the heart,man looks on the outer appearances.All he could have said is i love it when u were make up,ur beautiful either way

  14. All you blaming the woman is pathetic. Makeup doesn’t show a persons true character. So what if she wears a lot of makeup?? If it makes her feel good, then so be it! He obviously has very low self esteem if he’s worried about what she looks like without makeup! How awful for her and mean of him to put her through that! She’s better off without him. Let her find someone who appreciates her for who she is and not what she looks like!!!

  15. What a pity?Both the man and the lady,are all at fault.He marries beauty and see the result and she is not are real person, see the result.Marry for love and try to be yourself please to avoid all this embarrassment

  16. How this even got in the media hands? She cant be an unidentified woman because her picture is posted. Enough foolishness in one setting. It is unkind, cold hearted and inconsiderate. When you use your heart it doesnt hurt the heart of another person 95% of the time.
    So vain and not liking or loving someone for who they are with regards, to personality well the whole package. All of the person just not anything. Make up dont count in no way is it an important factor when it comed to spending the rest of your life. If I was here I ignore his ass and live not see a Physciatrist because he is the one who NEEDS to. Love yourself more it isnt wrong when someone let you down for all the wrong reason/s.

  17. Let me say the guy was in love with facial beauty and not with inner beauty.. If he could have loved the Laddie’s heart nothing like this could have happened. Then ladies learn to be natural don’t trap men with fake beauties

  18. Most of the people commenting don’t even have a profile picture but up. But got the nerve to talk about this woman. If you’re marrying for looks you’re probably marrying for the wrong reason.

  19. Was having a conversation with a Lady two days ago and she said “I like real men,I can’t stand fake men and I looked at her she was wearing fake hair, fake nails, fake eyebrows, fake eyelashes and was wearing a fake face. And I said: it’s cool to be real.and she lavishly beamed a smile at her stupidity.

  20. Make- up, no Make-up who cares, do what you do for you, I wear makeup, dress up, wear my wigs and I am still the same person I am on the days, I wear my natural hair, wear baggy pants and don’t wear makeup. I’m not going to judge their situation. All I can say is it clear they were not meant to be together they have learned a lesson. Everyone I date sees me with and without makeup, some like it some don’t.

  21. Really??? You may fall in love with the way one looks daily but if you marry for that solely well you never loved the person enough to marry in the first place. Looks are not guaranteed a person spirit, their true self, and character will always out last their appearance. If her appearance made that much of a difference he didn’t truly love her to begin with.

  22. If a woman wants to wear make up to make herself feel better I say let them. Don’t try and tell people how to look or what to do with their bodies. If someone is really that shallow and naive to think there was no make up that’s on him. Women keep on keeping on regardless of make up or not love will find you! People get dressed in nice clothes every so often even if they usually dress down. Doesn’t make them fake. People are still real people regardless if they like to wear make up.

  23. I don’t blame him,Like a lot of us women should run to get divorced when a man is terrible in bed or suffers from Erectile dysfunction!No woman should pacify his ego or cheat cause she’s been deceived.I never think it’s funny but men don’t know how being dishonest warrants a divorce right away.No women should be with a phony.In any department..

  24. How is he shallow for having a preference as to what he considers beautiful? A fisherman knows what kinda bait to use to lure and catch a fish… This woman was no different except her net had a hole in it and the fish was able to get away.

  25. Come on yall, this is no worse than a woman marrying a man because he drives a nice car, has a nice wardrobe and takes her to all the fancy places. Then finds out after the fact, boy is finances to the gills, and doesnt have it nearly as nice as he pretended. The truth in a solid relationship is when BOTH people can be honest. But we live in a world of fake boobs, financed cars we cant afford, and pretending we are people we are not to impress people who arent worth it any way. Welcome to the new new world order.

  26. Yes, she deceived him, and played herself. However, he is not very bright!
    Shes a clown n makeup n hes a big dummy.
    Perfect pair for a recipe of disaster.

    • He couldn’t have really loved her,Because if he did seeing her without makeup wouldn’t have mattered. He married her,to make himself look good. JERK!!!

  27. 1. Dude is a loser. You date someone on Facebook and then get mad because she’s not an avatar? That’s like buying fish off the street and getting mad because there’s no FDA seal.

    2. How shallow and insecure do you both have to be to marry somebody for their looks and try to impress somebody with your looks.

    3. Good. They’re too immature to be married. Let 30 years, kids, and maybe a car accident or a stroke happen and then come talk to me.

  28. I feel so sorry for her but I understand why she did it. The darker a person is, the harder it is for them!! They are treated differently by all races!! He never would’ve chosen her in the natural.

  29. I am a woman and I wear makeup, but I use it to enhance my beauty, not fake it. There is a difference. Her makeup was drastic and misleading, and he was naive not to see her in various lights (lol). Now they both are subject to controversial ridicule. Both parties did not do their job at being more honest and being investigative. Plain truth is she is not close to looking the way she does without make up and I don’t care what you guys think or say. I would have been pissed off too. You can go on and on about personality all you want, but on the real, #LooksDoMatter. She clearly was not confident or truthful enough to let him see the real her, cuz she knows her looks were not a plus. LOL

  30. Men lie with words by telling women what they want to hear; women lie with makeup by showing men what they want to see. In either case, truth prevails eventually — it’s the only thing that sets both men and women free.

  31. Am I the only person wondering why you would marry someone you met on Facebook after only 3 months?!

    Beyond all of the nonsense about the makeup, they didn’t know enough about each other. PERIOD!

  32. First of all, I tried fake lashes a couple of time. I don’t know how they see! I was blessed with good genes, but in my hey day, I was stuck on cosmetics. As I got older I realized how fake it is. A lot of men want eye candy… Trophy wife. Like someone mentioned, her game wasn’t tight enough..or the coochie wasn’t tight enough. (My Bad) Lol!

  33. Beauty fades people remember that. He married her for the wrong reason. What if she was just as beautiful naturally and had a car accident that disfigured her? Or simply aged badly? The man did her a favor by divorcing her, he would probably cheat on her, remember there’s always someone more beautiful than you but what makes the difference is the person that you are inside. That’s the reason someone should choose you not only based on looks. And i honestly don’t think she looks as bad, it’s just a bad picture, bad lighting and all. And probably fake news.

  34. I can’t believe this. This shallow man needs deliverance. He is after good looks. He should make sure that he doesn’t fall into the arms of a beautiful woman who turns out to be a SEA GODDESS.

  35. Comment: I never knew we have artificial human beings on this earth. Beauty is not all about polishing your face with kinds of stuff but what u portray as a woman of dignity.

  36. the evil of bleaching devils. men and women are adviced against this jezeebel life but innocent men would argue them out. other innocent men fall victims fall prey to such satanic paints but not true christians .
    Away with face painting,artificial fingernails,hairs, bleaching etc

    I CHALLENGE EVERYBODY TO RECEIVE CHRIST IN THEIR SOULS AND YOUR LIFE WILL CHANGE FOR GOOD.

  37. My name is Darwin, i am from Texas, USA and i have been in relationship with my boyfriend for 2 year now and we were planning to get married soon and all of a sudden he left me for another girl, i really love this guy and never can imagine my life without him. I further tried all my best to get him back but all my effort to get him back in my life did not work out. It was on this faithful day, i came across some comments on a website about this great spell caster called Dr_mack@ yahoo. com… , so many persons claimed that he help them to renew their relationship and bring their ex back, i had to contact him because he was my last hope. I contacted him through his email and he assured me that in two days time my boyfriend is going to leave the other girl and come back to me and it was a very great surprise to see my boyfriend coming back to me after two days. I am so very happy today that he came back to me and i achieved this with the help of Dr Mack, and i advice if you need his help too,

  38. I don’t think the lady was using the make-up to deceive the guy. Most of us (we ladies) like make-up but not when on weekends when we are doing house chores.
    Why did the guy leave her? because she had deceived her? This means that the man was not observant. The man has deceived himself not the lady. This means that the man married the lady because of appearance. You have seen where appearance has landed you? How can you marry someone only seen on facebook with three months? Me, I will never blame the lady but rather the guy. How could you marry a lady without even knowing her background?
    If you are beautiful, you are beautiful. It doesn’t matter the make-up. The man should have considered so many things not only the appearance.
    Men, you deserve more than this. Advice yourself.
    THANK YOU.

  39. It’s his fault for falling in love with all that makeup. He didn’t love her enough to love her without it. It’s also her fault for not showing him in all that time. Let’s be honest. She deceived him a bit. To wear it all the time and ONLY take it off once you’re married is cheating. The right person would love her with and without makeup. And honestly, three months is not enough time to know someone. I don’t care who you are. You DO NOT know someone completely in three months. He also should have known a bit better. Makeup like that is not our natural face. It’s no one’s natural face. Yeah, he should love her without it but I kind of understand his anger because of who he obviously is. That doesn’t make it right but it’s who he is. There’s a difference between having preferences and being materialistic/shallow. He’s shallow if ALL he cares about is looks. You can have a preference and find someone beautiful because of it but if that entire relationship is built on looks, then it’s shallow.

  40. After four years in marriage with my husband with 2 kids, he suddenly started going out with other women and coming home late, each time i confronted him it turns out to be a fight and he always threatened to divorce me at all time, my marriage was gradually coming to an end. i tried all i could to stop him from this unruly attitude but all proved abortive, until i saw a comment in the forum about priest manuka who helps people to cast a reunion love spell on marriage and relationship problems, at first i doubted it but decided to give it a try, when i contacted this priest manuka, via email, he helped me to cast a spell and within 8 days my husband came back apologizing for all he has done and promised never to do such again and today we are happily together again. thanks to priest mamuka for renewing my marriage.. his contact lovesolutiontemple1@gmail.com.

  41. This psychologist is so unprofessional and needs to be sued..how wld u breach confidentiality to this extent…smh!..am ashamed on ur behalf..@’Dr’ Molapo

  42. All of these comments BLOW my mind…where the Hell did you all come from?? Blaming her for wearing makeup? He sounds like the shallow IDIOT and your comments about women not wearing makeup or deceiving this poor poor man???? It is just stupid BS and so are you ignorant comments.

  43. The man was so much in hurry to marry her, maybe because of her wealth, that was why he didn’t wait to know who she really was. I blame the man!

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